As an employee & fitness trainer at M GYM I've seen quite a few disgruntled employees who deem it acceptable to weep about their personal issues with anyone who will listen , right at the front desk mind you (as did cactus012/baka desu!!!) or to arrive late & expect to be greeted with a warm smile upon their arrival. When one is miserable, they look to take everyone down with them or to be the victims. While we all try to work as a team, there are certain behaviors which become intolerable in a place of work. Her lack of focus & poor self image are the main cause of her problems. I recall requesting of her to book appointments onto the gym calendar only to find it was ignored.
I have worked for & with this Head Trainer/Owner to whom she refers, for more than 5 years now & have never been treated with any ""sexist"" or biased behavior, as I have proven myself to be both professional and reliable. Moreover, he has proven himself to be one of the most diligent, goal oriented and hardworking people I know.
As former restaurant manager,I find it is imperative to draw the line between friendship and business. These days it is quite difficult to even find young people that respect their workplace & comply with the responsibilities required of them. It's a society of disrespectful youth, towards themselves, as well as others. Sadly this young girl comes from a poor upbringing & has reflected this from the way she presented herself, the way she spoke, and finally her tacky style to bash to someone who endured her issues for far longer than was necessary.
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