I read some of the reviews of T46..and honestly, nothing is as bad as all that (or as perfect). I think that T46 is a great option to internet dating. You basically are paying for someone to take a lot of the work/time and logistics out of looking for a special someone.
I have been out on tons of dinners...it is not true that as a woman you can't get out more than 1x a month...if you are difficult and hard to please, maybe. But if you are open and your tablemates tend to like dining with you, you really can go out weekly. I have also gone on some one-on-one dates...These are less of a sure thing...there is something to having 3 chances of finding someone interesting. And I have also tried the more active adventures (ropes course, hiking). They were fun.
I have met smart, educated, genuine, honest, attractive men. I have also met some who I am not interested in or attracted to. But I have had an amazingly low number of dinners that I regretted the time and $ spent there.
So, as for the $$$, if you put a $ per head on how many people you are meeting through dating sites, and compare to how many you could meet thru T46, I think that somehow, T46 is the bargain :)
Lastly, the staff is friendly, warm and welcoming. They will spend time on the phone with you listening to your woes...they actually do care what you say, what you feel, and how you are doing...I do think they do their best, but no one can predict chemistry...they can only put 2 or even 6 people together who have enough in common to have a conversation.
My advice is if you can spare the $$$, give it a try.
ps: I don't work there!
Pros: lots of chances to meet future dates
Cons: expense & takes some effort
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