I saw Dr blackam for my 8 week pregnancy appointment. He wanted to do a pap but I'd had one recently. He still insisted on a pelvic which I declined due to my husband now being present and feeling very uncomfortable. His response was very defensive and very rude. He seemed to take offense to me questioning his authority. I had never seen a male doctor before for obgyn care and was just hoping he would be reassuring instead of so cold and angry. I never returned to the office. I thought it was also strange that he has no nurses on staff works alone and doesn't take better care of his office. No paper on the table real pillowcase on the pillow. I hope it was washed. Medical instruments in dusty coffee mugs and just doesn't look like a sterile doctors office. Has anyone else had the same experience?