Right after my husband and i got married our picture was in the local paper. Evidently the investment guy at First International used that to call us to see if we wanted to start investing. I answered the phone and he asked to speak to my husband. So I handed the phone over and a little later I hear my hubby saying, "well my wife handles all the money stuff. That's her decision on where we invest." What a dummy the investment guy was to assume the man made the decisions in our house. NOT a smart move. You can imagine I took our money to a more modern place.