The NW Network is a phenomenal resource for queer folks. You can get one-on-one advocacy in dealing with issues related to partner abuse and manipulation, safety planning, and long term healing. They also offer an amazing Relationship Skills class that I recommend to EVERYONE. I have learned a tremendous amount about communication and developing healthy relationships in communities, and how to support friends who are in challenging relationships. The Network also has a kick-ass analysis about how racism, sexism, homophobia, and transphobia play can play out in interpersonal relationships. If you have any questions, please call them. You will get excellent support. This is also an amazing organization to support with donations and other help.