IJL is great. If a person realizes that every man is not 6' tall and wealthy and every woman is not going to be beautiful, slim and athletic, then you will do great. My experience is that IJL deals with real business people who really would love to find their love. I have had a lot of fun and have met some really great people and am still dating one of the guys I met through them. If you have done Match and other sites, you realize that in the age of online dating, embellished profiles and the same people on multiple sites, they do meet all of their clients - and that is refreshing. It could be that too many people view the fantasy they have in their head of their perfect person is better than a real person!