my husband has been seeing this counselor for over a year and a half. Why someone has to see a counselor twice a month that long...I'm not sure. When we had marriage problems, I went along and all Chuck said was ""I don't even know why you're married"". so now my husband is divorcing me. some christian counselor. I'm not privy to anything they discuss and this counselor never encouraged my husband to share it with me. I don't feel like he has helped our marriage at all. One of the things we argued about was money. If my husband would have just spent all the money on us that he spent on counseling, maybe we would have had more good times together.