My inital call for my 1st appointment, was met with--almost an afterthought of a gracious reminder that if one wishes to tip one's therapist, that it would be cash or check separate from payment for the spa services. Okay, not an issue. Entering on appointment day for some much-needed bliss and r&r, on the "client intake" forms filled out--again, in black and white, spelling out terms for you to tip your therapist, & how much to tip according to services rendered. Bristling, I decided--okay, they have to educate the public, but any adult receiving services of any type in this world is aware that tipping is a compliment, that it is encouraged, and is welcome, but is NOT mandatory. Post massage session, which was competent, but nothing out of this world or exemplary, the front desk gal informed me in no uncertain terms--brightly flashing a smile, that they have envelopes available for me to place my tip in for my therapist. Gritting my teeth, I did so. But never again will I allow myself to be harangued into tipping for services. Lest you think this is just "sour grapes" on my part, I myself am a 16 year ABMP C.M.T. in private practice; the total number of times I've "informed" any client, new or otherwise, of tipping? Zero.
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